Can't get married

Hello I'm 29 and can't seem to get married, I get rishteh but nothing comes from it! I've started reciting so purkh but in English, there's a few questions I want to ask regarding reciting so purkh! 1- Can I recite it quietly in English? 2- Can I lie in bed and recite it? 3 -My mind seems to wonder when reciting it? 4- How do I no in doing it right? Look forward to any responses Thanks